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FROM A FRIEND OF MINE TO YOU....You know time has a way of moving quickly and catching you unaware of the passing years. It seems just yesterday that I was young, just married and embarking on my new life with my wife. Yet in a way, it seems like eons ago, and I wonder where all the years went. I know that I lived them all. I have glimpses of how it was back then and of all my hopes and dreams.

But here it is the "Back Nine" of my life and it catches me by surprise, How did I get here so fast? Where did the years go and where did my youth go?

I remember well seeing older people through the years and thinking that those older people were years away from me and that "I was only on the First Hole" and the"Back Nine" was so far off that I could not fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like. But, here it is;  My friends are retired and getting gray, they move slower and I see an older person now. Some are in better shape then me, some in worse shape then me. I see the great change, NOT like the ones I remember who were young and vibrant .... but like me, their age is beginning to show and we are now those OLDER FOLKS that we used to see and never thought we'd become.

Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for the day! And taking a nap is not a treat anymore it's mandatory! Cause if I don't on my own free will I just fall asleep where I sit!  

And so I enter into this new season of my life unprepared for all the aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go and do things that I wish I had done but never did!! But, at least I know, that though I'm on the "Back Nine", and I'm not sure how long it will last... this I know, That when it's over on this earth it's over. A new adventure will begin! Yes, I have regrets. There are things I wish I hadn't  done... things I should have done, but indeed, there are many things I'm happy to have done. It's all in a lifetime.

So, if you're not on the "Back Nine" yet... let me remind you, that it will be here faster than you think. So, whatever you would like to accomplish in your life please do it quickly! Don't put things off to long!! Life goes by quickly. So do what you can today, as you can never be sure whether you're on the "Back Nine" or not.. You have no promise that you will see all the seasons of your life so, live for today and say all the things that you want your loved ones to remember and hope that they appreciate and love you for all the things that you have done for them in years past!!

"Life" is a gift to you. The way you live your life is your gift to those who come after. Live it well! Be happy! Remember that "It is health that is real wealth and not pieces of gold and silver. CONSIDER THIS, Your kids are becoming you but your grandchildren are perfect!! Going out is good... Coming home is better! You forget names.. but it's ok because other people forgot they even knew you! !  You realize you're never going to be really good at golf.  The things you used to care to do, you no longer care to do, but you really do care that you don't care to do them any more. You miss the days when everything worked with just an "ON" and "OFF" switch.  You tend to use more 4 letter words ...."What?"..."When?"... Everybody whispers, What used to be freckles are now liver spots.............. But Old is good in some things: Old Songs, Old Movies, and best of all, OLD FRIENDS.  Stay Well "OLD FRIEND!"

TOMORROW, This "OLD FRIEND" has a BIRTHDAY, ... I was born on April 11, 194???

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ed Saiz

graduated from santa fe highschool in 1960.

graduated from cal. state univ. in hayward ca.

retired from fire service after 38 years

Married with a son & a daughter and 2 grandchildren.

Live in Auburn, Ca.

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